Nouman Ali Khan - Controlling Our Anger

About this lecture

In this khutbah, Nouman Ali Khan takes a nuanced look at anger in the Qur'an, exploring the key Arabic terms ghayth and ghadab to distinguish between suppressed inner rage and outward expression. Drawing on pivotal moments from Islamic history — including the companions at Hudaybiyyah, Aisha's response to the accusation against her, and Yusuf's restraint in power — he shows that anger is sometimes justified, while warning against a life consumed by it. The lecture concludes with a powerful reminder that unchecked anger, especially when rooted in jealousy, is among the most spiritually destructive forces a believer can face.